Supporting Caregivers and Families of Transgender and Nonbinary Youth

Abstract

A young person coming out as transgender or nonbinary (TNB) can affect their entire family system. Feelings of loss, confusion, self-doubt, fear, and anger are common during this time of transition as family members process the young person’s gender identity and the effects of the disclosure. With support, family members can successfully explore these thoughts and emotions and grow to not only accept but actively affirm and advocate for their loved ones. This chapter discusses the developmental processes that family members of TNB youth may experience after the young person comes out, reviews common concerns raised by family members, and provides strategies for supporting family members as they process a TNB young person’s coming out and what it means for the youth, the family, and their broader community. Three case scenarios provide further insight into how familial concerns may present in practice. Altogether, the chapter allows for an appreciation of the complexity and immense value of supporting caregivers and families as a means to enhance TNB youths’ lives.